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Patricia Hunnicutt's avatar

I had to go through years of try this, try that. Following the medical guidelines that were put in place to make us feel like something was being done. In reality, I think it was just to quiet our questioning. Bleeding so heavy tampons plus a pad couldn’t hold it. Clots that were the size of my hand. Finally, the doctor recommended a hysterectomy and when I say I’d like a second opinion, he comes back with “Do you want to end up with cancer like your mother and grandmother?” Like this whole thing was MY fault! After surgery, he tells me my uterus was over ten times bigger than it should have been - full of fibrous tumors. Made it sound like I deserved a trophy😡

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Carol Ann Power's avatar

Sad, and true wrt so-called women’s pain dismissed as madness or hysterical attention seeking behaviour. What absolute poppycock! What hypocrisy! That a beautiful and talented woman at the top of her game like Venus Williams could be so much as disrespected by “top”

doctors comes as a revelation of horror to me.

However, it’s no surprise, sadly. As an ex-hospital employee, I saw plenty of eating disorder patients: bulimia nervosa, and anorexia nervosa and exercise obsessive compulsive disorder sufferers and so called psychiatric cases who were actually Young beautiful women of all colours and backgrounds and shapes and textures who were crippled by their pain.

Now when I look back I know that my intuition and wisdom weren’t misplaced, these were women in indescribable pain, they were not malingerers or fakes or crazy.

Just sore.

And disrespected.

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